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Shirley H. scarborough
MY STORY | Strength, Faith and Purpose
In 2020, Shirley H. Scarborough faced profound loss when her daughter, Francesca, and unborn grandchild were tragically taken from her. Turning her pain into purpose, she founded Cry Loud, Spare Not, Speak Up, Inc., a nonprofit empowering women affected by domestic violence and abuse through education, advocacy, and support.
Near Francesca’s anniversary, Shirley hosts the “I Am Enough, I Know My Worth” conference, inspiring women and girls to embrace self-esteem and resilience.
Shirley’s dedication has been recognized in the Richmond Free Press, CBS6, and Bold Journey Magazine. In 2024, she was honored as a Hometown Hero for her commitment to faith, family, and community.
Her journey is a beacon of hope, proving that healing, purpose, and empowerment are possible even in adversity.
Follow Shirley’s journey and join the movement to break the silence. Together, we can uplift, empower, and inspire.

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As you read Shattered But Not Destroyed, you will gain an intimate glimpse into the heart and mind of my beloved daughter, Francesca. Francesca loved deeply, but her journal entries reveal the doubts and struggles she faced. She gave love freely but did not always receive the same in return. At times, she clung to hope even in the face of uncertainty. As mothers, we may not always know the silent battles our children fight. After her passing, reading Francesca’s journals allowed me to truly understand her pain and strength. I urge parents to have deep, honest conversations with their children—to be their safe place in difficult times. By sharing parts of her journal, my hope is to help another grieving parent find the strength to forgive, knowing that healing is a journey that requires faith and divine guidance. To the young woman who may see herself in Francesca’s story—I pray you find the courage to walk away before it’s too late. You are worthy of love that lifts you up, not one that breaks you down. Your life is precious, and your future is bright.
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I share my daughter's story with the hope of bringing light to others—whether you are a young woman facing abuse or a parent struggling with grief and frustration. You are not alone. Your voice has power.
Today, I encourage you to stand with us. Join our movement: "Cry Loud, Spare Not, Speak Up." Speaking up could save a life—it might have saved my daughter and grandchild.
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Together, we can break the silence.

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